Do you know what you want?
Some people admit they don't know what they want. Some think they know, when they don't.
In fact, people pity those in the first category without knowing that those in the second category are at greater risk of a mistake.
Before I got married, I thought I knew the wife I wanted. But whilst riding with a friend one day, his wife said to us casually "...the kind of wife Charles should marry is...". My o My! Her description cured my ignorance.
Before you arrive at the depth of what you want, consider the breadth of wise counsel.
Most of us have 5 senses.
Better to reach one decision with 5 senses than to make 5 decisions based on the judgement of one sense. To know what you want, don't let you eyes be the only decider.
Do you know what you want?